220 Would You Rather Questions for Kids, Adults, Couples and Work (Funny, Deep, All Original)
By The Rondovo team · Published · Updated · 20 min read
Would you rather is a question game: someone offers two choices ("would you rather always be ten minutes early or always be five minutes late?"), everyone picks one, and then you argue about it. Below are 220 original would you rather questions, sorted by who is playing: funny ones for any group, questions for kids, teens, adults, couples and work, and a set of hard ones that start real conversations.
Every question was written for this page. None of them involve injury, illness, money worries or exes, so you can read any list out loud at a family table or a team call without checking it first.
In short
- How it works: read two options, everyone picks one on a count of three, then the minority explains themselves.
- Players: 2 to 20. With more than 8, vote by hands and let two people from each side argue.
- Time: about 1 minute per question, so 15 questions fills a quarter of an hour.
- The trick to good ones: both options must be tempting, or both mildly annoying. If everyone picks the same side, it was a statement, not a question.
- Jump to: funny, kids, teens, adults, couples, work, hard and deep.
How to play would you rather
- Pick a reader. The reader asks one question, then passes the job to the left.
- Read both options slowly. Read it twice if anyone looks confused. The second option should land with a little pause.
- Count down and choose. On three, everyone holds up one finger for the first option or two for the second. Choosing together stops people copying the loudest voice.
- The smaller side explains. Give them 30 seconds. Anyone can switch sides after hearing them out, and a good switch gets a cheer.
- No "neither". The only rule that matters. If someone tries to dodge, the group picks for them.
With two people it becomes a conversation game: you each answer, then guess what the other one chose before they say it.
Ways to score it
Would you rather has no winner by default, which is fine for a dinner table. If your group likes points:
- Read the room. Before the vote, each player secretly writes which option they think will win. A correct guess scores one.
- The persuader. Whoever makes the most people switch sides in a round scores two.
- Lonely vote. If you are the only person on your side and you still talk one person over, you score three.
- Percentages. Before the vote, the reader guesses what share of the room picks the first option ("70 per cent"). Closest guess across the night wins.
Funny would you rather questions
Would you rather:
- have a sneeze that sounds like a duck, or a laugh that sounds like a car alarm?
- always have one wet sock, or always have a pebble in one shoe?
- be followed everywhere by a polite pigeon, or by a very slow tortoise who is always behind you?
- speak only in rhymes for a day, or only in questions for a day?
- have your thoughts appear as subtitles for one hour a day, or have a narrator describe everything you do?
- have spaghetti for hair, or meatballs for knees?
- only be able to whisper, or only be able to shout?
- find a tiny door in your house that leads somewhere unknown, or a talking cat who refuses to explain itself?
- have a theme tune that plays when you enter a room, or a laugh track after everything you say?
- hiccup every time someone says your name, or sneeze every time you hear a doorbell?
- live in a house made of jelly, or a house made of cardboard?
- have every door you open lead to your kitchen, or every chair you sit on squeak?
- wear clown shoes to every formal event, or a superhero cape to every meeting?
- be able to talk to ducks, but only about bread, or talk to cows, but only about the weather?
- have a nose that glows when you lie, or ears that wiggle when you are nervous?
- have to clap after every meal, or bow after every conversation?
- always know when someone is about to sneeze, or always know where the TV remote is?
- eat soup with a fork for a year, or eat cereal with chopsticks for a year?
- have a sidekick who is a very confident goose, or a very shy bear?
- have your voice swap with the last person you spoke to, or your shoes swap with them?
- narrate your own life out loud like a nature documentary, or sing everything you say like an opera?
- be the world's slowest runner but fastest knitter, or fastest runner but unable to tie a knot?
- have every song you hear be played on a kazoo, or every film you watch be dubbed by the same person?
- have a tail that shows your mood, or eyebrows that change colour with it?
- only travel by skipping, or only travel by moonwalking?
- find out your houseplant can talk and it has opinions, or find out your toaster can talk and it is shy?
- be stuck in a lift with a magician who only knows one trick, or a comedian who only knows one joke?
- smell like fresh bread all the time, or like a bonfire all the time?
- win a gold medal in an Olympic sport nobody has heard of, or come fourth in one everyone watches?
- have a pocket that always holds one warm biscuit, or a hat that always keeps the rain off?
- hear a whoopee cushion noise every time you sit down, or a trumpet every time you stand up?
- have all your photos come out slightly blurry, or have someone photobomb every one of them?
- be a famous chef who cannot taste, or a famous singer who cannot hear themselves?
- talk to your future self for five minutes, or watch five minutes of your past on video?
- replace all doors with curtains, or replace all stairs with slides?
- always have to say the last word in every conversation, or never be able to start one?
- own a dragon the size of a cat, or a cat the size of a dragon?
- be allowed only sandwiches for a month, or only soup for a month?
- have the ability to fall asleep anywhere instantly, or wake up anywhere fully rested?
- trip over nothing in front of a crowd once a year, or get your words muddled once a week?
Would you rather questions for kids
Simple choices with no wrong answers. Younger children love it when grown-ups have to answer too, and they love it even more when the answer is silly. For ages 5 and up.
Would you rather:
- be able to fly, or be able to turn invisible?
- have a pet dinosaur or a pet dragon?
- live in a treehouse or a castle?
- eat ice cream for breakfast or pancakes for dinner?
- be a superhero or a wizard?
- have a slide from your bedroom to the kitchen, or a trampoline for a floor?
- talk to animals or speak every language in the world?
- be as small as a mouse or as tall as a giraffe for a day?
- live under the sea or on the moon?
- have a robot that tidies your room or a robot that does your homework?
- go to school on a dolphin or on a hot air balloon?
- have rainbow hair or glow-in-the-dark teeth?
- be the best at football or the best at drawing?
- have a birthday every month or a holiday every week?
- find a treasure map or a magic wand?
- swim like a fish or run like a cheetah?
- have a bath in jelly or in hot chocolate?
- meet a real unicorn or a real mermaid?
- never have to sleep or never have to eat vegetables?
- be a pirate or an astronaut?
- have a pet penguin or a pet monkey?
- only be able to hop or only be able to crawl for a day?
- have a house made of chocolate or made of sweets?
- be a teacher for a day or the head teacher for an hour?
- have a giant snowball fight or a giant water fight?
- own a car that flies or a bike that swims?
- be able to jump as high as a house or run as fast as a train?
- have a magic backpack that makes any snack, or magic shoes that take you anywhere?
- sleep in a tent in the garden every night, or sleep in a bunk bed with your best friend?
- be a famous singer or a famous inventor?
- live in a world made of Lego or a world made of cake?
- have elephant ears or a monkey tail?
- be able to breathe underwater or walk on clouds?
- win a talent show or win a race?
- have a friendly ghost living in your house or a friendly alien?
- have a day with no rules or a day with no bedtime?
- turn everything you touch into ice cream or into bubbles?
- go on a safari or go to the North Pole?
- be a cat for a day or a bird for a day?
- only eat red food for a week or only green food for a week?
Kids get the most out of it when they have to give one reason. "Because dragons are cooler" counts.
Would you rather questions for teens and students
For middle school, high school and the first week of college: social without being personal, so nobody has to share more than they want to.
Would you rather:
- have every exam be an oral exam, or every exam be a group project?
- know the answer to one test question in advance, or get ten extra minutes on every test?
- be famous online for a dance, or for a cooking video that went wrong?
- never have homework again, or never have to wake up before 9am again?
- have a teacher who tells jokes all lesson, or one who lets you leave ten minutes early?
- only be able to use a laptop that is ten years old, or only a brand new one with a cracked screen?
- live in the city with no garden, or in the countryside with no Wi-Fi after 9pm?
- lose all your saved photos, or lose all your saved messages?
- have your music playlist shuffled on the school speakers, or your search history read out?
- be the best player on a losing team, or the worst player on a winning team?
- have a free lunch every day, or a free bus pass for a year?
- take a gap year travelling, or start your dream job a year early?
- be able to rewind 10 seconds once a day, or pause time for 10 seconds once a day?
- learn to play any instrument instantly, or speak any language instantly?
- have your whole year group move to your house for a week, or move to your teacher's house for a day?
- always have the perfect comeback, or always know when someone is joking?
- be in a band that is famous for one song, or a band that is loved by a few for ten albums?
- spend a week without music, or a week without video?
- design your own school uniform, or design your own school timetable?
- star in a film, or write a film someone famous stars in?
Would you rather questions for adults
Grown-up questions without the R rating: careers, homes, habits, getting older and the small daily choices adults secretly argue about.
Would you rather:
- work four ten-hour days, or five six-hour days on less pay?
- have a perfect memory for names, or a perfect sense of direction?
- live in a tiny flat in your favourite city, or a big house somewhere quiet?
- never wait in a queue again, or never sit in traffic again?
- cook every meal yourself, or never cook again but eat only what someone else picks?
- have a cleaner once a week, or a chef once a week?
- always know the right thing to say at a funeral, or at a wedding?
- retire at 50 with a modest income, or at 65 with a comfortable one?
- have every holiday planned for you, or plan every holiday for others?
- be the funniest person in the room, or the smartest?
- spend a year living abroad alone, or a year at home with family?
- go back to university for free, or have a free year of travel?
- only listen to music from before you were born, or only music released this year?
- have a garden that grows itself, or a kitchen that cleans itself?
- move house every two years, or never move again?
- know exactly how many friends you will have at 80, or how many places you will have visited?
- be very good at one hobby, or decent at ten?
- never lose your keys again, or never lose your glasses again?
- be able to speak to your teenage self for an hour, or your 80 year old self?
- host every family gathering, or never be asked to host one?
- live without your favourite food, or without your favourite drink?
- have a job you love that pays enough, or a job you like that pays double?
- always be slightly too warm, or always be slightly too cold?
- know every recipe by heart, or know every song by heart?
- have every meal be slightly too salty for a year, or slightly too sweet?
- read every book you have ever wanted to, or watch every film?
- be a well known artist who is never paid, or an unknown artist who earns well?
- have more time, or more energy?
- be able to fix any car, or any computer?
- receive one letter from a stranger who admires you, or one apology from someone who owes you one?
- own a beach hut, or a cabin in the woods?
- go on a road trip with no plan, or a guided tour with every hour scheduled?
- never be late again, or never forget a birthday again?
- give a speech to 1,000 strangers, or sing to 20 friends?
- have a bigger home, or a shorter commute?
Would you rather questions for couples
For date nights, long drives and couples' game nights. Play it as a guessing game: one of you reads, the other predicts the answer before hearing it. Every question here is warm or playful, so nobody has to sleep on the sofa afterwards.
Would you rather:
- have a slow breakfast in bed every Sunday, or a surprise day trip once a month?
- relive our first date, or skip ahead to a trip we have not taken yet?
- dance in the kitchen every night, or sing in the car every morning?
- get matching tattoos of something silly, or matching pyjamas forever?
- cook a fancy dinner together, or order takeaway and eat it on the floor?
- go on a mystery holiday planned by me, or a dream holiday planned by you?
- know every thought I have for one day, or have me know every thought you have?
- have a pet together that talks, or a house that tidies itself?
- spend a week camping together, or a week at a hotel with no phones?
- write each other a letter every year, or make each other a playlist every year?
- always agree on what to watch, or always agree on what to eat?
- renew our first anniversary every year, or invent a brand new tradition each year?
- live by the sea together, or in the mountains?
- have a famous love story, or a quiet one only we know?
- go to a cooking class together, or a dance class together?
- take one big trip a year, or lots of weekend breaks?
- have breakfast together every day, or dinner together every day?
- get stuck in a lift with my family, or with your old school friends?
- win a couples' quiz together, or a three-legged race together?
- have a garden we grow food in, or a balcony we drink tea on?
- be married by a celebrity, or by your favourite childhood teacher?
- go back to the moment we met and do it differently, or keep it exactly as it was?
- plan every date for a year, or be surprised by every date for a year?
- have a house with a library, or a house with a cinema room?
- share all our snacks forever, or have separate snack drawers forever?
- travel the world in a camper van, or on slow trains?
- hear what our friends really think of us as a couple, or never know?
- adopt a dog together, or a very old tortoise that will outlive us?
- get a weekly hug that lasts a full minute, or a daily compliment?
- write our own story as a book, or film it as a documentary?
Would you rather questions for work
For team meetings, onboarding and remote calls. Nothing about pay rises, performance or anyone's boss, so nobody has to choose between honesty and their next review. These also make good warm-ups; our icebreaker games guide has more.
Would you rather:
- have every meeting be a walking meeting, or every meeting be ten minutes long?
- work from a beach with bad Wi-Fi, or from a cabin with great Wi-Fi?
- have a desk with a perfect view, or a chair that is perfectly comfortable?
- answer every email by video, or every video call by email?
- have a four-day week, or a long lunch every day?
- be famous in the company for your slides, or for your snacks?
- have the office playlist chosen by you, or the canteen menu chosen by you?
- swap jobs with the CEO for a day, or with the newest intern?
- know every shortcut on your keyboard, or never lose a file again?
- have your inbox empty every Friday, or your calendar empty every Monday morning?
- give a presentation in rhyme, or in mime?
- have a robot assistant who is brilliant but very slow, or fast but forgetful?
- work with a dog in the office, or a cat?
- never attend another all-hands, or never write another status update?
- learn a new skill every month, or master one skill this year?
- sit next to the loudest typist, or the loudest snacker?
- have every day be casual Friday, or every day start an hour later?
- lead the team quiz night, or the team sports day?
- only communicate in emojis for a day, or only in voice notes?
- have a standing desk, or a hammock in the break room?
- win employee of the month, or win the office bake-off?
- be the person who always fixes the printer, or the person who always knows the Wi-Fi password?
- work in a library-quiet office, or a busy café?
- take your birthday off every year, or get one surprise day off a year?
- write the company newsletter, or design the company T-shirt?
Hard would you rather questions
These are the ones that make a table go quiet for a second. Both sides cost you something, and the real game is hearing why people chose what they chose. Good for close friends, couples and late evenings. Give people time; a pass is always allowed.
Would you rather:
- be able to take back one thing you said, or hear one thing someone never told you?
- be remembered by many people for a short time, or by a few people forever?
- relive your best day once a year, or never repeat a bad day again?
- always tell the truth, or always be believed?
- have a life that is calm and predictable, or exciting and uncertain?
- know what everyone thinks of you, or never know what anyone thinks of you?
- be very wise, or very happy?
- lose all your memories from before age 18, or from the last five years?
- be able to change one decision from your past, or see one decision from your future?
- live 200 years ago knowing what you know now, or 200 years in the future knowing nothing?
- have a friend who always tells you hard truths, or one who always makes you feel better?
- be the best in the world at something nobody values, or average at something everyone values?
- give up your favourite hobby forever, or give up travel forever?
- never feel embarrassed again, or never feel jealous again?
- know every language, or play every instrument?
- forget every film you have seen so you can watch them fresh, or remember every detail of them forever?
- make one choice that helps a stranger enormously, or one that helps a close friend a little?
- have a long life in one town, or a shorter life that sees the whole world?
- discover a long lost twin, or discover a famous ancestor?
- always know when you are being lied to, or never be lied to but never know the truth either?
- go back and tell your younger self one sentence, or hear one sentence from your older self?
- be free of fear, or free of regret?
- have everyone forget your worst moment, or have everyone remember your best?
- spend a year in complete silence, or a year never alone?
- be able to read people's moods perfectly, or never be affected by anyone else's mood?
- be the friend who is fun, or the friend who is always right?
- give up the internet for a year, or give up seeing your friends in person for a year?
- make a great discovery and never get credit, or get credit for a small one?
- know the answer to one big question about the universe, or fix one small problem in your street?
- live a life you are proud of that nobody sees, or one everyone admires that you are not sure about?
How to write your own would you rather questions
The lists above run out eventually, and the best questions at a party are the ones written about the people in the room. A few things we learned writing these:
- Make both sides tempting. "Fly or be invisible" works because both are good. "Fly or stub your toe" is not a question.
- Or make both sides mildly annoying. "One wet sock or a pebble in your shoe" works because everyone has felt both.
- Add a cost to the nice option. "A free holiday, but you can't pick where" is better than "a free holiday".
- Keep it specific. "Talk to ducks, but only about bread" beats "talk to animals".
- Leave out pain, illness and bodies. A question about losing a limb is not edgy, it just ends the fun for anyone it hits close to.
- Write about the room. "Would you rather be stuck on a desert island with Sam's cooking or Priya's singing?" works if Sam and Priya laugh first.
Hosting tips that make it work
- Start with funny, end with deep. Open with three or four silly ones so everyone answers fast. Save the hard list for when people are settled.
- Ask the quiet people first. Before the vote, say "Leo, you go first this time". It gives shy players a turn without putting them on the spot about anything personal.
- Cap the arguments. Thirty seconds per side, then move on. The game dies when two people debate one question for ten minutes.
- Let anyone skip. A question that lands badly for one person is a bad question tonight. No explanation needed.
- Mix it with something else. Would you rather works best for 15 to 20 minutes. Then switch to a game with a winner, like the ones in our party games guide.
Playing would you rather online or on a video call
On a call, the countdown gets messy because of audio lag. Two fixes: everyone types 1 or 2 in the chat and presses enter on the count of three, or everyone holds up fingers to the camera. The second is more fun to watch.
Rondovo does not have a would you rather game, so for this one the list and a chat window are the honest answer. The closest thing we have is Most Likely To, which works the same way with one difference: instead of choosing between two options, everyone votes for a person. The prompt comes up on everyone's screen (and on a TV, if you use one), each player votes on their own screen in secret, and the result is revealed at once. It plays with 3 to 16 people, takes about ten minutes and has its own deck of family-friendly prompts. It is free: the host makes a room, guests join at rondovo.com with the four letter code, with no download and no account, and on a video call nobody needs to share a screen. Our most likely to questions list has 160 more prompts if you want to play it out loud.
For a group that likes writing jokes, Fill-In gives everyone the same sentence with a blank and the room votes on the funniest anonymous answer. If your group likes the "learn things about each other" side of would you rather, Two Truths and our never have I ever questions are the natural next step.
Questions people ask
What is the would you rather game?
A conversation game where one person offers two choices and everyone has to pick one, then explain. There is no board or equipment, it works for 2 to 20 people, and the fun is in the reasons people give, not the answers.
What are good would you rather questions?
Ones where both options are equally tempting or equally annoying, and specific enough to picture. "Have a theme tune that plays when you enter a room, or a laugh track after everything you say?" works because you can imagine both and neither is obviously better.
What are good would you rather questions for kids?
Choices between two fun things: flying or invisibility, a pet dinosaur or a pet dragon, a treehouse or a castle. Keep them short and ask for one reason with each answer. The 40 questions in the kids section above suit ages 5 and up.
How do you play would you rather with a big group?
Read the question, have everyone vote by raising one or two fingers on a count of three, then let one person from each side argue for 30 seconds. Anyone who changes their mind switches sides. With more than 20 people, split into tables with a reader each.
Can you play would you rather with two people?
Yes, and it makes a good date night or road trip game. Take turns reading, but before your partner answers, predict their choice. Score a point for every correct prediction.
Is there a would you rather game online with friends?
You can play it on any video call by typing answers in the chat on a countdown. Some websites show questions with live percentage results. For a game where friends vote on their own screens and see the reveal together, try a voting game like Most Likely To.
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